;You sit there on the couch, staring at the blank tv screen.  You replay the events of yesterday through your mind.  There was so many chances missed.  But really, if he was genuinely interested wouldn't he have done SOMETHING!  You certainly were eligible and although you may not be a spring chicken you are certainly not unattractive.  You wonder what would have happened if you tried to make the first move.  Unfortunately that line of thinking quickly brings you to the realization that his rejection would probably have been much more "in your face" than this more passive aggressive reality.  You're not sure you could have dealt with an all out rejection.  Still, you can't help but let the "what if" factor mess with your head.